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Well, I'd think of describing such men as bisexual but heteroromantic binary gendered cis men, and feel like I had communicated something clearly, but that's icky SJW language and I strongly doubt they'd want to identify with it! In spite of activists' efforts "gay" is still in everyday use a gender identity as well as a sexual orientation.

There's also the homophobic stereotype that gay men pursue sex with pretty much anyone that has a penis, and don't form normal stable dyadic relationships, like that politician recently claiming that the "average" gay man has over 20000 partners or something ridiculous. That's starting to look like projection, isn't it? Wanting to have sex with absolutely no relationship, not even the very minimal relationship of offering and accepting whatever activity you want to do... maybe we do need a word for that.